The pact between 贝 and i ended last Thursday. Since 贝 went to Jakarta on Monday, i could have broken the pact without him knowing, but i'm a woman of my word. I didn't buy any junk food until Thursday, even though i had this craving for potato chips since weeks ago. Of course, needless to say, my craving was gratified over the weekend. Anyway, not having junk food for a month didn't seem to have any effect on my weight. So i guess eating junk food isn't the reason of my weight gain. Not doing enough exercise should be it.
We were watching an episode of Grey's Anatomy yesterday. There was this scene about a husband having a transsexual surgery and the wife still stayed by his (or should it be "her") side. I said to 贝 that this could only mean that the wife truly loves the husband very much, for true love transcends everything, including gender.
贝 then said that there is no way he can accept that. He said if i were to become a man, it's not possible for him to love me anymore. So i commented that this means his love for me is not unconditional; he will only love me on the condition that i'm a woman. He made no denial to my assertion.
Well, that's my boyfriend. He could have lied and said something romantic like "i'd love you no matter what", but that's just not him. And that's probably one of the things i love about him, that he will be truthful to me, even when the truth is not so sweet to the ear.
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