Even when your head tells you that there is no such thing as eternal love in this world, you should still believe your heart that it does exist and keep on believing.
All lives are intertwined, yet everyone in this world is selfish, including yourself.
All relationships are two-way traffic. One-sided effort can never work out, and will only add on to the grievances.
Do not believe in the bullshit of talking things out will make things work. Words can be misinterpreted and misunderstood. As much as you want to make it clear, there is no guarantee that the listener gets the real meaning of your words, for perceptions and prejudices play an important part in how a person perceives the words, and you have no control over these factors.
Do not believe in the bullshit of talking things out will make things work. It will only work if both parties open their hearts and speak their minds. Yet speaking one mind can be hurtful. As long as you still care about each other, you do not want to say the hurtful words; if you do not mind telling each other your real feelings even knowing that it will hurt, then you do not really care for each other that much after all. Then what is the point of talking things out anyway.
When two persons start to see things differently, there is still a possibility to reconcile by working towards the same goal. But when one party does not even see that differences exist, then the person does not think there is a need to work on anything, and the possibility becomes impossible.
When your loved ones cease to care about your happiness, it is ok to be sad or even angry. But you gotta let go of all these negative emotions one day, and focus on how to make yourself happy, even though no one really cares about you anymore.
No one can ever give you happiness, for it is not something to be given in the first place. Happiness comes from within yourself; do not depend on others to make it happen.
Life is an endless loop of sufferings. Once you accept that, you will know that your goal in life is not about the pursuit of happiness, but how to make the sufferings less tormenting.
When you start to feel that your existence in this world does not matter anymore, you still have to keep on living. Life is a one-way journey that you must complete no matter what. It is just that, no reason needed.
Labels: introspection
