I'm really glad that he was here during the time i needed a friend the most, even though he couldn't stay long. His return to SG helped me a lot. It had been a very long while since i last have a heart-to-heart talk with a guy friend. To hear a different story and to get advice from a normal guy (not counsellor) are different from that of gals. It helped me to accept that certain things are just the way they are, for no reason at all. If i really demand one reason, it will simply be -- because they are men!
Actually i do not have a lot of friends here in SG. Those whom i could really pour my worries and rely on are all in Msia, and the only two i have here in SG (i.e. DS and Carol) are both married with kid or expecting a kid. So they can't really be with me every single day. The recent one whom i got really close with like a big sister to me is my housemate, but she also has a different group of friends and once i moved out of the house, i am not sure if we will still be this close anymore.
I guess it's really time for me to widen my social circle, so that i can get to know more friends in SG, whether male or female.
Labels: friendship