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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Need friends

Had dinner with EY yesterday, and this should be the last meet-up we had before his departure to China for a year. I won't know when we will meet again, probably next year. By then, i hope all problems in his marriage will be resolved already, and i will be able to greet him with a happy smile too.

I'm really glad that he was here during the time i needed a friend the most, even though he couldn't stay long. His return to SG helped me a lot. It had been a very long while since i last have a heart-to-heart talk with a guy friend. To hear a different story and to get advice from a normal guy (not counsellor) are different from that of gals. It helped me to accept that certain things are just the way they are, for no reason at all. If i really demand one reason, it will simply be -- because they are men!

Actually i do not have a lot of friends here in SG. Those whom i could really pour my worries and rely on are all in Msia, and the only two i have here in SG (i.e. DS and Carol) are both married with kid or expecting a kid. So they can't really be with me every single day. The recent one whom i got really close with like a big sister to me is my housemate, but she also has a different group of friends and once i moved out of the house, i am not sure if we will still be this close anymore.

I guess it's really time for me to widen my social circle, so that i can get to know more friends in SG, whether male or female.

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Yes, I do agree with you and glad that you have seen the need in enlarging your social circle.

I hope you'd consider also to offer yourself to some community service or social work or church activities such as International Bible Study Fellowship (BSF). -LF

I am happy for u. I will Kiss ET when I see him. Thank him for open up your mind. I am still trying to find out more social work for u.

Pls call when u need help, i feel so bad not able to take care of u well. I will be happy if u call for help. Be strong ok. DS

Ya! I hope u mean what u said, really.
Read an article yesterday.
In summary is write down 50 things which u want to do, regardless how illogical it is. Then just select one of it, do it. Don't worry about other issue, what no accompany lah! No time lah! No this, no that lah!
All of this are not reason, it's excuse in fact. The true & only reason is we lack of courage & determination.
"JUST DO IT !!!"
走出去就有路.

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Wednesday, June 10, 2009 @ 4:46 pm: Answer
Wednesday, June 10, 2009 @ 3:56 pm: My theme song 54
Wednesday, June 10, 2009 @ 3:50 pm: On retrospect
Tuesday, June 09, 2009 @ 9:46 am: My theme song 53
Tuesday, June 09, 2009 @ 9:31 am: Accept that
Tuesday, June 09, 2009 @ 8:47 am: My theme song 52
Tuesday, June 09, 2009 @ 8:13 am: Another late night
Monday, June 08, 2009 @ 6:29 pm: Choices
Monday, June 08, 2009 @ 4:04 am: My theme song 51
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