There are a lot of China people in SG, so many that sometimes i'd even wonder if i'm in SG or China. I'm not sure if it's healthy for me to stay here and put up with the changing demography.
I think it's understandable that China women irritate me now. I know i should not stereotype them, and there are many China people here who worked hard in decent jobs just to provide a better life for their family back home. I do respect these people, such as those who work at construction or hawker centres.
However, for others who are involved in any occupations that have sexual flavour, or those who outright engage in prostitution, or use all kinds of tactics to become a mistress or to wreck a family, i really despise these women.
Ya, ya, i know that their poor standard of living is not something that i had ever experience in my life so i don't understand how much they need money. Ya, ya, i know that they are not so lucky as me to be born in good family and have good education. Ya, ya, i know they have a lot of sad stories, and they "sacrifice" a lot for their families... bla bla bla...
The thing is this -- there are things that you do for money, but there are things that you do not. It's just as simple as that. If money is the top priority to a person, above all morals and other values, then i'd say i have every rights to despise such people. To such people, money comes first and there is no such things as sincerity (只讲钱，不讲真心). To them, as long as it involves money, there is no right or wrong already.
I went to Chinatown today and boy, what a scene that i saw. Lots of these China women were with those old men, in those sexy outfits, letting these old lechers touching them everywhere. Have they (both men and women) no sense of shame at all?
I went to a supermarket and saw an old man holding hands with a China woman who looked at least 20 years younger than him. She was in short skirt and low cut spaghetti-strapped shirt, and that old man seemed very happy with her, shopping for groceries.
Then i wondered, there were already so many news or hearsay about these women, why would the men still being hooked?
Well, the reasons are multi fold.
Firstly, it is something similar to those men who had sex with the women of unknown background and yet do not wear condoms. When asked if they aren't worried about contacting diseases such as STD or AIDS, their answers will be one of the two: (1) Aiya, won't be so "lucky" one lah; (2) No lah, she doesn't look like the type that sleeps around.
Hence, those men would still fall for these China women despite the many stories because they think that the one they met is unlike the others on the news. The one they met is the exception; she is the good one and the man believes he will not see or feel wrongly about her. It's surprising that how all the men who got cheated would say the same thing at first, and then of course, in the end, all the different stories are always the same.
Then, there's this super tactic that these women are good at, which is something that the woman in SG or Msia totally lacking. You know, we are not as good as them when it comes to mesmerising men with all the tender, loving, care (and sad stories that play on the sympathy of men too). For instance, even when we are at the most passionate stage of our relationship, i.e. the first few months of dating, would you be constantly telling the other person how much you love him and miss him? When i said constantly, i mean like repeatedly saying it for more than 10 times per day! It was as if they do not have to do anything else but to devote their time in making sure they keep the men hooked.
As this article has put it succinctly:
中國女性來到大馬，他們的主要目標是華裔男性，大家文化和語言相通，加上她們使出溫柔、體貼、嬌嗲等招數，讓許多華裔男性大失定力，不少人因此拋家棄子。
Of course, another tactic will be something that decent women like us who are lacking too -- sexual techniques. Oh yes, they are really good at that, and all men who had slept with them once will have their minds occupied with it and want it over and over again. And most China women have big boobs compared to South East Asian, which is something i do not understand why. Probably their cows there are better in producing good milk. So men being sexual animal, the big boobs alone are enough to make them go gaga.
Lastly, let's not forget about the most important thing -- as Robin Williams aptly said, "See, the problem is that God gives men a brain and a penis, and only enough blood to run one at a time".
Yes, after all that had been said about these women with no moral values, the problem still lies mainly on the men. They simply do not think with their brains at all when it comes to women.
Frankly, i've never ever imagined that i'd become one of the many victims whose marriage was wrecked because of China woman. Not in a million years i'd have imagined this. I mean, he is not even a lonely old man yet. And i had too much confidence in my man being the "good one" who will not be so foolish as to be tempted, and this is not unlike the very first reason that i had mentioned above. So this probably means that all men in the world are the same!
There was this author who criticized SG women being inferior to China women because they looked ah soh after marriage, well, if i were to ever have a chance to stand side-by-side with that woman, she would be the one being thought as ah soh and not me, even though she is younger. After all, she is a mother already.
What i was getting at is that this author did not realise that there are a lot of wives who actually looked better or are better in many ways than the mistresses, but what the wives do pale in comparison to the outside women are the hypocrisy, TLC and sex tactics mentioned above.
And sadly, for men, these are the very thing that could bewitch them and incite their immoral desires. It really sucks being a woman, especially being a decent woman.
