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Thursday, June 08, 2006

How rumours spread

A: Remember my ex-girlfriend Sandy? She's getting married next week.

B: Really? So you are going to her wedding?

A: Nay, she didn't invite me. Actually we kinda lost contact after the break-up. I heard the news from a mutual friend.

B: Oh, so are you gonna call her to congratulate her?

A: I don't think so lah... It will be kinda awkward to call her up out of the sudden. Anyway, i'm glad that she has found her happiness.

B: Uh huh...


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B: Hey, do you remember A's ex-girlfriend?

C: Erm, by the name of Sandy, right?

B: Ya, you know what... she's getting married soon. And she didn't invite A to her wedding.

C: Hmm, i'm not surprised actually. Their break-up was quite nasty.

B: Yes, i guess that's why they don't speak to each other anymore. A didn't even wanna give her a call to congratulate her. He said he's happy for her, but he wasn't smiling at all when he said that.

C: Really? Then maybe he's not genuinely happy for her loh...


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C: Ei, did you hear about what happened to A?

D: Huh, no. What happened?

C: His ex-girlfriend is getting married very soon and he won't be at her wedding.

D: Really? You mean they can't be friends anymore after the break-up?

C: No, they hate each other. A doesn't even wanna give her his wishes. He isn't happy about her getting married at all. Apparently, they haven't let go of the unhappy past.

D: Wow, i never expected A to be this kind of man leh...


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D: You know what happened to A recently?

E: No. What?

D: He was very upset about his ex-girlfriend getting married in a few days time. He isn't going to attend the wedding and refuses to wish for her happiness.

E: Are you serious? But i thought their relationship ended long time ago?

D: Yes, but it seems they still haven't let go of their old feelings.

E: Ya, i do remember how deeply in love they were with each other...


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E: Did you contact your good friend recently?

F: Who? You mean A? No, we haven't been keeping in touch for a few months already. Why leh?

E: Oh, so you didn't know about his ex-girlfriend getting married within these few days?

F: Huh, Sandy getting married? No, i didn't know that.

E: Well, A refused to go to her wedding and even hoped that she wouldn't be happy in her marriage. He's probably still in love with her after all these years.

F: Huh, then he must be feeling really bad now. I must talk to him...


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F: Hello, A, are you feeling alright?

A: Huh? Yes, i'm ok. Why did you ask such strange question?

F: I heard from someone that Sandy is getting married tomorrow or the day after, and you didn't wanna attend her wedding. Why leh? It has been such a long time.

A: What? No lah, she didn't invite me to her wedding.

F: Is it so? Don't tell me that you still can't get over her? Hey friend, let it go lah... you gotta move on...

A: WTF??!!!




Fact #1: Everyone likes to gossip about others.

Fact #2: We selectively register some, but not all, parts of a message into our minds.

Fact #3: We form our own truth based not on facts but our perceptions.

Fact #4: Facts always get distorted through the communication channels.

Fact #5: A rumour about you will always find its way back to you, and most of the time it's gonna be nasty.

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You know wat, I have been going around with the A/B conversation these days cause both of my ex is getting married this month. Lets see how many Fs i will get coming to me.

If you care to tell me more juicy details, i won't mind being B, C, D, E, or F. :P

Haha. wat juicy details, hehe. and to think this month is my birthday month.... sort of a present to me...

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