I, (name), take you, (name), to be my [opt: lawfully wedded] (husband/wife), my constant friend, my faithful partner and my love from this day forward. In the presence of God, our family and friends, I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.
Yes, this solemn vow is not simply given without any meaning. We should mean it from the bottom of our hearts when we give it to each other. And whether or not we meant it is shown by the acts of it as well.
贝 has forgotten about it, totally.
I, as a wife, am doing my best not to forget it too -- to love you unconditionally, as long as we both shall live.
But it is not easy. Really, very very very tough.
Does loving a person unconditionally include staying through despite he no longer love you fully and faithfully, continue piercing your heart regardless of how much you are suffering, and cherish someone else more than you?
Tell me, how to do all these? I am not a saint; i am just human. How much must you love a person to be able to do all that?
I really don't know.
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